BEING A 'DREAM GIRL'
Thursday, November 5, 2015
When it comes down to it, you have to be the girl that a man doesn't even know he wants. In most mens heads they think they want the girl that dresses provocatively, is easy to control, and takes on the roll of a trophy wife. But little to THEY know, that's not what they want at all, or need. Hints the reason that when a girl acts too needy, too provocative, or sleeps with a guy too soon... they immediately dispose of her.
They key to finding success with a dude is being yourself, staying independent, and doing a few things that will capture their attention when they don't even know it.
1. Once you claim you are at all interested, the ball in in THEIR court. Stop calling them, stop asking them to hang out, stop texting them first. I'm sorry this hurts, but it's my only advice. This comes off as needy and desperate which is something guys will stray from immediately and they will probably only hang out with you when it's convenient for them. Yes, for now it seems that you are giving them control, but it's only so you can actually GAIN it for yourself.
2. Do not bring up having a relationship with him FIRST. Just don't do it. In the beginning all it really takes is a hint of indifference. You will ruin all of your hard work if you do something ignorant like this. If a guy can't really tell where you are coming from he will treat you with way more respect.
3. Have control over your emotions. I know this seems like it's impossible sometimes but girl sometimes you need to take a deep breath and CHILL OUT. The world most likely isn't ending tomorrow. If he doesn't text you today, he will probably text you tomorrow. Stop taking things out of context. They could be busy, tired, or not in the mood to talk. Men are weird creatures, don't weird them out in return.
4. Don't EVEN start trying to tell them what to do or suggesting anything you think they need to change. This one is just self explanatory. They will run for the hills if you do this. Trust me.
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